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The Wisdom of Ages…
Summer begins today. June 21st on the calendar marks the official start of the long sought lazy, hazy and fun filled days of summer fun. Among other things summer offers, as you may remember I remarked in the pages previously, this is a time to put context to the year as mid way point and perspective to our place in time. Recently I visited with two remarkable life long regional residents that for decades have called our area home and have much to say about what our town was like and how things have changed since long past. Ferne Kressler is a lifer, born in Hellertown, moved to Springtown, Ferne has seen a lot through her eyes and offers some great wisdom for us all. Ferne has seen a lot and done a lot, widowed now and enjoying her elder years, Ferne has done everything from working a farm homestead with her late husband, a butcher, both dutifully raising many children and today a matriarch over several grand children and great grand children. An avid writer, poet, musician and all around walking history book, Ferne can recount for hours how not only our area has changed but how society and culture has adjusted since her younger years.
Ferne remembers having the first baby born needing an incubator at the now St. Luke’s Hospital, formerly the Quakertown Hospital. Ferne recounted the contraption as a makeshift shoebox with lights designed to get the job done. We’ve come a long way since those times in many areas including health, technology and in our culture and at this mid way part of the year some great commentary was given to me by Ferne and some others in their current place of residence The Phoebe Richland community. I asked Ferne and fellow resident, another area lifer, Peg Smith what they see as the biggest change our area has undertaken. Without hesitation both remarked the addition of housing, developments and business’s to our area. Peg and Ferne recounted how many decades ago our area, as bucolic as it may seem to many of us now, was even more dramatically serene and less occupied in days gone by. Farmlands, nature and wildlife both women recounted have been sacrificed as growth has greatly expanded throughout our region. Ferne managed a home with 11 rooms on a nearby homestead and recounts with great joy the care and undertaking of her family as one way to insure one’s longevity. Peg also described her home in Milford Square, a restored mill, in a loving way that served as a private sanctuary in raising her children and growing a loving family. I couldn’t help but ask these well proven and seasoned citizens what advice or feelings they have about people in middle age, or younger. Ferne, a woman with a clear zest for life and with a mind razor sharp, looked me dead on and said parents today have a tough time. Ferne explained back in years gone by things were simpler, today it’s almost the exception that both parents aren’t working and this means less time with family and a severe strain on all members. This, in Ferne’s mind is a significant problem, as she explained that it’s family closeness, love and nurturing that not only helps raise great children but also serves as a key ingredient to our own good health and wellness.
“Keep your mind active and you’ll never get old” Ferne remarked. “Stay close to your family, take care of yourself, don’t take yourself too seriously and laugh often.” Ferne’s comments sank deep within me as I wrote realizing how foolishly at times I don’t do any of these things. As I wrote on several occasions through the pages, we live in a world that moves us through a never ending maze of activities and often miss these proven life long principles. I asked if today you could have a new career and work again, which path would be most attractive? Ferne, again with a deep passion in her remarks, said she would teach children on the importance of learning about their nation and what was done, not so long ago and even now, to afford them the freedom and opportunity they have today. Ferne says many kids and adults today aren’t involved enough in the inner workings of their community, town or borough. She encouraged me to write that getting involved in your community and in local or regional government process serves as another way to keep your mind growing, keeping that mind moving is the common factor towards insuring a long, healthy and happy lifespan.
So, paint for me a perfect day I asked, Ferne spoke about being with her son recently as he worked on a project that include taking down some large trees off a nearby Haycock area property. I was puzzled, Ferne went on about this seemingly simple day with one of her children and raved about the fun she had. Then, I got to thinking, as I’ve been taught, when you put the time in with your family it becomes your most familiar and enjoyable environment. Ferne, smart as a whip made it clear, time early and often with family is a life process that’s the key to living. Ferne, Peg and many others prove the point each day, through many days and decades positively affecting many generations. So this summer season take the advice and wisdom of the well seasoned among us. The wisdom of every season, savor your family, take time to connect with one another and break a pattern Ferne says candidly is occurring too often, that is too many of us not being with each other nearly enough. The wisdom of ages is available to us all, spend time with seniors you know and listen. These fine folks are walking history books, better than any internet site, textbook, archive, library or museum can provide. Go with the pro’s advice, those that have ‘been there’ and ‘done that’. Listen, learn, then do and enjoy a zest for living that awaits you. With the family, wishing you a joyous summertime and as always see ‘ya around town. |